I Did It My Way

[Lorrie]

I was just wondering how many chat hosts do shows 100% their way? Meaning the guest is just supposed to keep their mouth shut, masturbate if they like, but do NOT EVER give direction. At least if the guest did, the host will ignore them because she is doing her show her way only. And the way the host figures, if the guest likes her show--great! If the guest doesn't, and wants her to do something else--even if the host does do it at times, but just doesn't feel like doing it--the guest can go somewhere else.

Any host like that?

[TheMole]

That has happened often for me over the years. Yes, I go elsewhere, unless they are new. Then I explain nicely what I want. If the next time they do not do what I would like (and I am flexible), then adios....

[Katwomanvid]

[Lorrie]

[missy]

i have a guy who comes to see me .. with these requests . im to be nude . he will enter video . he watches me get dressed in sexy outfit . full on stocking heels corrsett .. the works , then he like to watch me apply make up , not just a littel but a lot . and really over do the lipstick . then he like to watch me blow up balloons . i must get the lipstick smeared all over my face. blowing up about 7 ballons . then he likes me to put them in the corrner and stomp on the balloons with my heels to pop them at the same time i yell hummallation thing to him .. hes very weird and actually nice guy and asks for the same show every week .. :evil:

[Katwomanvid]

[Katwomanvid]

[Hony]

[Katwomanvid]

[Hony]

It's always best to be prepared!

Hony

[Katwomanvid]

[Emphasis]

Doing a show 100% your way isn't benefic in most situations. I see it as cooperation, a mix of your way and his way. They get on a video chat site because they wanna direct their own shows, otherwise they would simply watch porn videos instead. Of course there are exceptions to this rule, for instance, I have this particular regular who visits me almost every day, for 1-2 hours, sometimes even more. Half of this time is spend chatting, the rest is the show. Well with this guy, the shows are 100% my way, because he simply loves my way. There are guys who chat a bit, the usual introduction stuff, then ask for a show, start doing their thing, and keep their mouth shut. This means they wanna see you doing it your way for start. Once they wanna see a particular thing they ask for it. It's your choice if you wanna do what they ask or not. Sometimes they ask to see anal for instance. Well it's not my cup of tea, but instead of faking it I come up with something funny like anal has to wait a bit, my pussy is too hungry right now. I never had a guy leaving me when i said that. So the idea is...you can still do it your way, as long as you don't make them feel ignored. You just need to use a tricky way with words

[Lorrie]

[MadisonStone]

In my experience, even the ones who say they want to see you do what you want to do are secretly hoping that what you want to do is what they want to see. "What are you in the mood for" always means "Please guess what I'm in the mood for."

I always uncover the client's expectations before the session starts. That way there are no surprises. There are a lot of things I will not do so if he's looking for one of those things, I send him to someone who will do it. That way I never get myself into a situation where I feel I have to do something I"m not comfortable with. Doing things that don't feel right to you for money will backfire on you. You will become bitter and jaded and it's hard to sell shows when you are bitter and jaded. Stick to what you like and your attitude will make up for the shows you turn away.