fall in love?

[elsydeon]

chathosts and viewers are people too, if you have fallen in love, say it here (its a poll, so it can be anonymous if you want)

[Hony]

Wow, I'm not sure if that is brave or sad!

Hony

[Lorrie]

A guest once told me a buddy of his fell in love with a chathost and they got married.

I don't think one should be too choosey as to where to find a mate. It's difficult enough finding a person with similar interests, emotions, etc. that is crucial to making love last. Judging by WHERE you found each other is being too picky, IMO.

[Lorrie]

[elsydeon]

ill admit even i fell in love (i think she loved me too) once, it was with a eastern european girl, she doesnt work as a host (showgirl as she refered to it) anymore because the girls in her studio were mistreating her and no work (Flirt4Free is ungodly expensive for us pizza hut slaves)

to be honest, im glad i did fall in love, remembering the time i spent with her is one of the few things that brings me true happiness

[TheMole]

I like this topic. I will admit to being fond of many of the models I have come across over the years. I still correspond with one and she hasn't been a host for two years. One thing people need to remember though is the hosts job is to be nice to you and make you come back. Have I loved any of them? I do not think so. I have felt sad when they left, but with hundreds and hundreds of hosts available, when one leaves you look for another one. One weird thing about me though. Once I find a host I enjoy, I usually only go to her room. I just completed a three month 'relationship' with a model at peekshows. Funny, she was large breasted, tall, and a little heavy... My tastes run to small breasted, short, thin models. But this woman had the nicest personality. She was fun and her room a blast. But things end and you move on. Do I miss her? Absolutly. I will live however . That being said, she has been gone a week and I already am hanging out in another models room. She isn't as outgoing as a person, but that could be the language barrier. We will see if she is my next cyber-friend. Actually..... maybe its good that the model/host left. My visa card will get a rest...lol

[rexrex]

I am in the fortunate sitiation of being in love with a romanian model at the moment. and i have had atleast 2 girls whom was in love with me, 1 romanian and 1 german. But unfortunately i have never met any of them in real. i think its easy for a guest to fall inlove with a model, but often its not the girl they fall in love with, its the character she "plays" in video they love with.

one thing is loving someone you see over the internet, loving someone in real is different, because i firmly believe that you cant be 100% sure if you love someone untill you been together in real life.

alas, i know many girls from russia, and romania, ukraine etc etc, are trying to find a guy in the west, getting married to a guy from the west is their ticket to better life where they can send money home to their families. proforma love.

[Lorrie]

[Lorrie]

[louchey]

Interesting poll and subject. I answered the poll in the affirmative but in truth I'd just fallen for her...

[Lorrie]

Great for you and the host, Louchey! I wish you all the best. Sounds like your relationship is very real and mature.

[elsydeon]

[Katwomanvid]

Wow this is a touchy subject for me.

What many of the clients don't seem to realize is that well over 80% (in my experience) of the chat hostesses are already in long-term relationships if not outright married. A lot of the girls lie about their personal lives in order to attract customers actually looking for a girlfriend. I know one chat hostess from another site (not on vixen) that calls at least 3 different guys every night and ends the calls with "I love you baby". These guys litterally spend hundreds of dollars on her every week and hope one day they will meet this girl that has "fallen in love" with them. She will, of course, never agree to meet them.

Personally I cannot do that and feel that it is cruel to do that to the men. Guys in my room know that I am married and delieriously happy with my man. I always make it perfectly clear that this is a fantasy, and while I am totally into the sexual fantasies we enjoy together, there will never be anything more than an online sexual friendship. I also am aware that this can seriously limit my income, but have never been able to bring myself to lie about my personal life. My husband and I actually have disagreed on this subject when we have had finacial difficulties! lol everyone is different!

I am not making judgements about the girls that do it...buyer beware of course! The guys should know that this is the woman's job and try not to get emotionally attached. And the girls that do it and make a tonne of cash all the power to them. I just know, for me, it is a persona I simply cannot adopt. As it is I have guys that seem to have fallen in love with me and beg me to leave my husband... it breaks my heart! Very nice, very lonely folk...

And I do know people that actually HAVE met online through cam sites and they are married now! So it *can* happen...just always remember it is *unlikely* to happen!

Katwoman

[TheMole]

I never ask if a hostess has a boyfiend or husband or girl fiend. They have to... Not everyone is like me ;(. Other chatters do ask... All the time..... I see it once a night. The hostess will 99% of the time say no. If it is someone I go private with usually the first thing I say to them is private is liar liar pants on fire......or words to that effect, with a big smile at the end. It is usually good for a laugh or two.
This was a long time ago, but I went private with a model whom I went private maybe twice, I don't remember. Anyway, first thing she typed to me was that her boyfriend dumped her and she was sad. What do you do about that? I ended up playing big brother for my time. She quit the next week if I recall. lol... sucker.....

[Lorrie]