fall in love?

[TheMole]

but what I don't understand is, at some point don't they realize the host is lying when they wait and wait but the host keeps making excuses as to why they can't meet just yet?

I think its called denial. Or perhaps desperation. I will admit to having to slap some sense into myself at times.
Speaking of gifts, I have sent two gifts over the years. One was lingerie. Her birthday was the day before mine, so it kinda made sense. The other, I sent a gift certificate to someone I chatted with a lot but rarely took private maybe twice in the 3 years I was acquainted with her. But she was nice and she became pregnant with her second child. So, me being me, asked if her and her husband needed anything. Her request was a gift certificate from of all places, Wal-Mart. Knowing her online all those years made be believe that she would put the gift to good use. And the fact it was Wal-Mart and not Niemun-Marcus sort of clinched the deal. btw, when she was five months pregnant she was very very beautiful.

[unitard]

I really think it would be hard to fall in love with someone you have never met in person.I do have a friendly relationship with some girls,but I do know that it will never turn to anything more than that.I am similar to the comment above about finding one room I like and pretty much staying in that room.Part of that is because the girl is very friendly and treats everyone in a respectful manner.The other part is if you are in a room long enough you get to know the other people that visit there frequently as well...i find it interesting to be able to talk with people all over the world.That combination makes it a fun place to be and one that would be greatly missed.
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[Katwomanvid]

Wow Great Story Mole, any chat hostess would be lucky to have you as an online buddy.

I have had several lovely gifts sent to me...I have never asked for them but I have made it a possibility for my clients (and some I would even go so far as to call friends at this point) to send me things as they see fit. Ironically I have also sent them cards and gifts back where appropriate. Never to the level of the expense they have gone to (simply cannot afford to do that!), but hopefully they have found the items an cards thoughtful and have enjoyed them. I certainly enjoyed sending them.

As for my comment regarding the 80%...hehe that may have been too high in the industry itself, but on the site I work on many of the younger college types don't stick around. So I guess I was referring to the 25 years of age + type of performer that sticks with a site for a year or more that fall into the 80% catagory.

I do agree strongly with Unitard regarding having a fun place to be where you get to know a lot of the people that hang out with the girls. It is kind of like the sitcom Cheers; where everybody knows your name and they're always glad you came....lol (litterally) but with a little nudity thrown in!

[estiquito]

[unitard]

I would find it hard to fall in love with someone on a cam site simply beacuse you do not know that person well enough.I am positive there are lots of beautiful and appealing ladies,but I would have to spend time with someone in person before I could fall in love.Meeting a cam girl in person is an unrealistic thought..it may happen for some people but not many I would think.I would need to spend a lot more time than a few hours a week with someone...getting to know all about them.Also what you see of a cam girl on the site is not a true representation of their true self.I am not trying to say that they lie,or try to "trick" anyone.I just mean that it is their job, and that job involves being happy and up all the time.Hard to gauge a person when all you see is that side,everyone has faults..you just have to find out if the faults a person has is something you can deal with.I hope no one takes this the wrong way,I am just stating how I feel about falling in love with another person.I most definately have met girls online that are great,and important to me as friends..but I also know it will not progress past that.A person can never have enough friends so I am happy with that relationship.
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[elsydeon]

it also depends on where the people live, ive met a host whose house i could easily drive to (if i had a car); and a bajillion girls from eastern europe

[Lorrie]

[DanPhx]

While a lot play the "I'm single so you have a chance" card...
the "I'm with someone and too horny *not* to do this" card
has value too

or the "I'm with someone, but he doesn't know I do this" card

lol

[DaRookie]

Well...members going to camsites is like going to casino. U know you gonna lose most of the time, but you still wanna try your luck

DaRookie

[DanPhx]

[Hony]

[woobinator]

Hmmm...Been there, done that. When we started talking, there was really nothing sexual about it..mindless banter and chit-chat. We became friends, who became interested in spending time together...so we did. It's true, probably the most unlikely place for this kind of thing to really happen...we've talked about that more than once. That said, we've been together for some time now (not online, but real) and we fit really well. She's become the best part of my life, and constantly tells me the same. Who knew?

[Delraeisevil07]

I wish one of my clients would fall for me! lol I am single and very unhappy but I have a high criteria of what I will even pursue for a relationship.