As you can tell from my Nick...

[Married a CamGirl]

Well we aren't married just yet.. but soon.

So.. here is our story.. left out some details fro privacy...

We met on a well known cam site 28 months ago. She was different right from the start. She never asked me to do a pvt which I thought was odd... we just chatted about everything.. even when she was in pvt she would keep chatting with me. Felt bad for the paying customers!

She told me she didn't do sex shows, just a little strip.. topless and that was it. I found it hard to believe, changed my nick and tested her on it on several different occasions. She never stripped. I continued to verify that every couple of months with different Nicks until I was satisfied and trusted her.

After a couple of months she gave me her yahoo account and phone number. I called her internationally every day and we would sit on yahoo. Same deal..constant chatting and on occasion she would say she had a pvt she needed to pay attention to.

It wasn't long before she asked me to visit her IRL. I had some health issues that prevented it in the short term, but finally, after 14 months.. I went to visit.

She met me in the airport. We spent two blissful weeks in the apartment I rented. We hardly went out to see the major international city she was in. Four months later I went again for another two weeks.. this time I brought a ring and proposed. She said yes!

Now we are a few weeks away from her arriving in my city and getting married. I asked her to stop camming during the visa process. She agreed without a second thought. She has never asked me for money and isn't thrilled about leaving her country but wants to be with me.

In her studio our story has become famous. All the other camgirls are now hoping to find a real man to marry.

She really loved camming though and wants to do it when we are finally married. She loves the easy money and the attention. She was making about $1500 a month via a studio on three different sites.. I suspect that amount would grow considerably if she is independent and I put a lot of effort into marketing for her. She has also stated she would be willing to do some fetish film work as long as her face is never shown and she only works with me.

So.. thats why I am here. Trying to learn everything possible about how to maximize profits, avoid pitfalls and of course protect our relationship.

Thoughts or comments welcome! I will try to answer all questions as long as they are not too revealing.

[dreamvisionmodels]

Great story, I have heard similar ones.
Congrats!

[cloanes]

Congrats OP! I have not been so lucky with chat hosts, despite many asking me after 30 minutes of chat, why I'm single and stuff. Although that is probably the host tricks in many cases.

Last year I almost met a Romanian chathost, but she scammed me of £60, 2 days before I was due to fly out and I pulled the plug on a meeting which never was going to happen.

This year I met a Brazilian chathost in her country, who online wanted to get romantically involved, but then told me her 'little secret' during our one hour meetup. She was married and had been for about 5 months. I appreciated the fact that she came to see me against her husband's wishes. Within 2 months, she informed me that she had split from her husband. We are kind of getting close on MSN amd chat on a daily basis, she does not encourage me to vid chat with her.

In the past month, the lady who scammed me now wants to meet again in about 3 months time, but says she may come to my country to meet. I have agreed to simply meet, if she does come.

In the same month I've also had another Romanian host who wants me to come to Bucharest, however red flags arise with her. She offers me a bed at hers and wants to make love etc etc after only 2 sessions of chat. Errrr hello?

I have become somewhat disenchanted with camhosts. Too many ladies are money-orientated. I admit I'm weird because I simply chat and I never play with myself. If I wanted sex, surely it would just make more sense to goto Amsterdam for a weekend or something?

Anyway, I've burnt too much money on chat hosts over the years. The lady I met in Brazil is a great person and I've met a few others who after 2 years still talk to me on MSN. Others just have my MSN to simply encourage me to vid chat, so the more they do this, the more waffle I send in my reply.

I know another Brazilian host who is getting married to her former paying member. I doubt it is you, but she is a person with a great personality and very open-minded sexually. If it is you, then meu amigo you are one hell of a lucky guy, as she is so badly into you. Also you should lern her language If it's not, then just ignore what I just said Anyway this also helps just to backup the theory that it is possible for a marriage to occur between a host and a paying member, although chances are very slim.

[MyFreeCams]

OP, care to share what site you met her on?

We have had dozens of member/models marriages at MyFreeCams.com and those are just the ones we know about .. it's probably in the hundreds now.

It's our favorite part of the business.

[Delraeisevil07]

I wish I could find a hubby off my cam job! lol but most the men I talk to are ugly and make me wanna puke. Hahahahaha only talked to one attractive guy off cam and that ended up in a disaster. Gay....

[Indigo]

Well myfreecams, you can add me to your list of success stories! I met my boyfriend THE FIRST NIGHT I went on MFC. I'm in Australia and he's in England which is tough but he's moving here next year and we're visiting each other in between. I've never been into the whole internet dating thing (let alone meeting someone on a cam site lol) but let's just say we are both SO glad we both went on MFC that night

[ChelseaLive]

I guess topic starter is gone.. but let me get it right - you spied on your girlfriend to make sure she doesnt strip while working on sex site you met her on? how did you come across the site? i bet my life you googled live sex videochat, or free porn or clicked "get laid in your city tonight" banner. Then you made her quit her job without offering any compensation from your side, or at least you were happy about her not asking for it.. of course who cares what she gets to eat.. And now that you two are getting married you are thinking of ways to make more profit out of her, and even consider filming fetish porn with her (without showing her face of course, now its all cool). Now that all the money goes to the family pot working on cam is also cool. Wow, what a romantic story! i wish i could met a guy just like you in videochat!

[missangie]

GOOD JOB, I've couldn't said it any better you are so right..
there is a name for that Cyberpimp LMAO

[lisalove]

creepy

[flakxoxo]

geez that sucks

[Cashmoneystudio]

Hello

I am new to this site, and wish to take a look. We are a studio in romania willing to recruit models from all over, and encouraging studio's to join us. I read on the forum that there is a big fuss about big and major sites, who is paying what, who is cheating who, which guy tricked him or her in payment etc. and others striving to get accounts on sites which they cannot.

We on the other hand to NOT work with these big famous sites, we work with 3 sites which have minimum models, and a modest traffic. On average 95% of the models that work for us earn between $1,700-$2,800 per month.

Please do not insist for me to post the names of the sites, because i wont. Afther this you will be able to make youre own accounts, and no earning for me.

I encourage studio owners to sign up all their models first,(to get power over registration) and try each model individually to get payment, and build trust in me, coz it is a big factor here.

i insist, please do not ask me to post up names of the sites, because i wont, and i repeat that we only work with 3 sites.

Who ever wishes to collaborate with me, please contact me on st1studio@yahoo.com

thank you very much

kind regards to all

[Lexi Fire]

[TheBrownFox]

[spider]

I guess if you were in dire situation and want to come to America then doing whatever it takes will be necessary.

Usually the freaks who are insecure are the ones who want to find a bride on a porn site or in a foreign country.....That is not to say that either won't make a good wife....It's just that these insecure freaks who are adamant in converting the woman to his lifestyle that is questionable...

[tinaincredible]

I have to agree that I find this a little creepy as well. The OP stated that she didn't even ask him to go private, and was surprised about that? Well that's called game. I don't ask the majority of my guests to go private either because they will go pvt if they are serious about getting a show. The ones who sit there talking all damn day want a few things from us, and it is not a show. They want 1. to waste our time 2. an escort 3. free sex chat 4. to talk to a "porn star" because it's soooooo cool *eye roll* I can't stand guys who come to my chat room taking up my time for free and wasting precious moments that I need to make money. I get a lot of so called "nice guys" who want to sit there and chat, but I am not logging on to chat. I got bills, bills, bills, and kids, and debts to pay off. Talking to some friendly guy for free is not paying my bills.

You know what else bugs the fuck out of me? The guys who get all butt hurt because we are in our chat room for money! Mofo, then why are you on a PAID adult website? Man this is so annoying to me. So many sites on the world wide web. Why come to a paid adult site to meet the girl of your dreams? *eyeroll*

I wonder how this guy will treat this girl when she doesn't have her own money, and he gets pissed off for what ever reason? I think she is losing some of her independent woman freedom by leaving her country for some guy who met her in her chat room. I really hope they do have a good relationship, but I don't know... I smell disaster. Just my opinion..

Edit: Oh and I just wanted to add that the number 1 warning sign in this "relationship" is that the OP was "spying" on this girl BEFORE they even entered a relationship! HELLO JEALOUSY!!!!!!! If this guy met her on this PAID ADULT SEX WEBSITE then WHY in on earth would he want to spy on her to make sure she isn't doing ADULT things on AN ADULT SITE? Totally screams jealous guy! One of the main things that keeps a couple together is TRUST. If you have to spy on your mate then you shouldn't even be with that person. I don't know...If I was her, and I ever found out my man was spying on me on my cam site, I would be completely pissed off!!!