What am I supposed to do in private?

[CamGirlB]

I've been a webcam model for about a month, and I feel like my privates need some improvement. I usually begin my taking off my top, rubbing my tits and then taking off my panties, playing with myself standing up, doggy style and on my back. It starts to get very boring after a while, especially if a guy is in my room for 30 or more minutes. Someone once before told me that you should immediately get naked, so I tried not to "waste" time doing a striptease, but I'm wondering would doing a striptease actually be quite beneficial to me? What else should I be doing?

[Hony]

How about asking the viewer? Some may even like to watch you dress up in different outfits! Then of course there is toys... but for 30 min use make sure you are lubed!

[dreamvisionmodels]

Great point Hony,

I would always advise models to start with a simple question : what are in a mood for today? What do you like..and start from there, find out if this is an 'ass man' , 'legman" etc and customize your private show to his likes.

[camdoughfriday]

I am also new to cams and this has been an informative topic for me. Thanks everyone!

[Emphasis]

First off, whoever told you that you should *immediately* get naked was completely wrong (Unless you are working under a category like Instant Action on CamContacts, although it's not a general rule in there either).
Communication is the key in my opinion, before, during and after the actual show.
Instead of starting by taking your top off why don't you try starting with a short "get to know each other" conversation, welcome the guy, introduce yourself...Find out what he likes to do/see, and once he actually asks for a show, keep talking. Tell him what you'd like to do to him, find out what he likes most, ask him how he'd touch you, let him guide your hands, make him feel like he was there with you.
Before deciding that "instant shows with no communication" is the best way to go, take into consideration that you doing your "routine" show makes him feel like he was watching porn. And even if video chat sites are also called "porn" sites, there's a lot more to it, and that's the social factor. The internet is saturated with free porn, if those guys decide to pay on a cam site, it means the are looking for more, by default.

[camdoughfriday]

[newbieforoneforall]

The more you can keep them talking the more minutes $$$$ you can rack up. And that is why we are all here cash, keep'em talking, $$$$$ yep keep'em talking $$$$$$ ))), maybe they'll wanna take you home to mom! lol

[Horny Joe]

Keep them talking too much and you might lose them... forever. I'm a viewer and my advice is to have a little greeting and ask them what they like right after. Talk to figure out what they want, not to waste their time.

[WEBS]

One of the most intelligent things to do is not to show your face. why? well because if you are exploited during your performances and your pictures, video's are published all over the internet, without your permission, while sites keep making earnings on them wihtout sharing the profits with you. You will still be able to uphold some sort of integrity in society without feeling everyone has recognized you. And, far after you are out of this business industry their will be no identifying images of you anywhere. Just know that it's your right to not show your face and all sites will tell you it's ok.

[flakxoxo]

that isnt all true WEBS! big sites like cams.com streamate.com and much more ask you to show your face every moment, i have been suspended for not showing my face every 5 mins on cams.com thats pretty important for them...

[WEBS]

Again, you are being subject to serious exploitment of your rights to annonymity. Unfortunetly prior to my post you were forced through illegitimate means to expose your identity on cams, while suspended as you say if you did not. Well, you are being coerced' and exploited as a model. This is why I have joined this forum in effect to provide some valuable insight to all models who are coerced, abused and exploited in this field.

Be wise- you have rights US THEM.

[SillyMissMouse]

[quote="WEBS"]One of the most intelligent things to do is not to show your face. why? well because if you are exploited during your performances and your pictures, video's are published all over the internet, without your permission, while sites keep making earnings on them wihtout sharing the profits with you. You will still be able to uphold some sort of integrity in society without feeling everyone has recognized you. And, far after you are out of this business industry their will be no identifying images of you anywhere. Just know that it's your right to not show your face and all sites will tell you it's ok.[/quote]


If it is our right not to show our face, then why do the site admins fine you if your face is not in site at all times? I registered with live jasmin, and I only saw the rules later and 1 of the rules is that you must show your face at all times.

[CamGirlB]

So, since I'm with Streamates, is it a rule to show your face? I prefer not to, unless the guy asks. If I continue to not show my face, will they fine me?