Just chat... that's it?

[louchey]

I had a chat with a girl from a site yesterday.
It became clear that she was unwilling to do anything more than chat... ok, at the request of somebody else she got down to her undies but no more.

I came back later and chatted a little more and just as I was leaving she implored me to stay a little longer to deflect the attentions of another guy who wanted her to get naked, or rather, "nasty", in her words. I remained; it was only about 10 minutes max and we chatted some more then her shift finished. She remained clothed I might add. More fool me you might say, but she was very attractive and actually interesting to chat with.

Now my question is this. At the consumer end of the website the offer is couched in terms such as "Just ask the girls what to do for you and they will. They're horny as hell." And I must say, by majority this is true. But what is the offer at the supplier end of the website? Are girls who go to work with studios being told they can just talk and chat and do as they wish? Are some studios hiring girls on the pretext of chat and chat alone without informing them of what is likely to be asked of them?
If this is the case it's a sad and bad day for the industry.

[Hony]

It's a very interesting question -- there is a lot of misunderstandings out there. And without visiting every chat room and taking statistics it's hard to know. What I get the feeling for is that there is a certain segment of both hosts and viewers who are happy with the clothed-interesting-chat situation, where where they fit in with the more typical "shows" chat rooms I don't know.

I can say I see some unhappy -- or perhaps "frustrated" is a better word -- viewers who find they never get to see what they are expecting.

At the same time the hosts who are indignant that the "creepy guys" are asking them to do "disgusting things" strikes me as naive in the extreme.

Hony

[Jeffrey007]

Sometimes the model is "New" and just not ready and maybe never, this business isnt for all, these are usually isolated cases meaning it doesnt happen to often, it also frustrates most studio owners as well usually. Also could have been just a bad day for her (happens in all jobs)

[Hony]

I don't know, I've heard of girls doing this for years -- and being pretty "popular" too, in that guys are constantly trying to get a "peek".

Hony

[louchey]

Ok, on reflection there's probably 101 reasons why a host wouldn't give a show, being new, having an off day, being on a period even, and as you said Hony, being a serial teaser - and clearly successful with it!
In the case I witnessed I somehow don't think it was any of these. Of course I can't be sure but I'll keep you posted

[cat223456]

I know how you feel, lots of girls can't get the basics straight. Don't they know you have to wear makeup with bright lights? Don't they know lingerie can make an average girl look sexy? If a girl just sits there like a dead fish rubbing herself with a bored look on her face, she's not going to get repeat customers.

The girl should seductively strip out of the aforementioned lingerie and proceed to pet her "kitty" until she gets off. If she can't get off, she should fake it and pretend she's enjoying herself. Did you see the film "When Harry Met Sally" ?

Here's some tips for the guys. If you're seeing a girl for the first time, don't pre-pay for 1/2 hour or 1 hour. And a word about free chat. I've met with girls who didn't do free chat, and they turned out to be very nice.

If a girl only wants to strip, she should be clear about her limits in her description. But whatever you do, be polite, you're not talking to a robot.

[louchey]

Update on the above.

It seems the host in question has another contract which would be infracted if she were to go too far on cam.

Hmmm. The plot thickens

[kitty]

Did you notice if she works on a non adult part of the site?

[MsMammary]

Let's face it.... these are commercial sites. The objective is to generate revenue. I actually prefer for guests to enter my FREE chat room and discuss what they are seeking. This takes just a few seconds for me to know if I can accomodate. Then, its on the the videochat room, where I get naked and present my show.

I NEVER remain fully dressed in my videochat room.... unless a guest request it. Believe me, so want me to stay fully clothed and they tell me when to strip.

I NEVER drag out the time to get naked. But, in ImLive, I never undress before 20 seconds, since the 1st 20 seconds are free. I introduce myself, tell the guest what's going to happen and get ready to bust a nut.

I think it is rude to deceive guests by not doing the exhibition.

So, I use my FREE chats for preparation. Its a good strategy.

[MsMammary]

I was just at ImLive. Kinda of slow, but that's OK. I had 2 guests (both with credits) in my free chatroom. Well, they just wanted to sit around and chit chat. I gave them about 15-20 minutes. Then they started chatting with each other. So, I graciously said good-bye. Then they started begging me to wait. However, I did not stay. I had engaged in sexual chat. But, if that was not enough motivation, then, I have to move on.

You see, the complaint needs to be analyzed from both perspectives. Even though I am in a FREE chat, at some point, guests needs to expedite into the paying videochat session. As a chathost, I simply can not sit idle awaiting for guests to move to the next step. I do not prod them to move, but then again its a commercial site not a free type of Yahoo chat room.

So, I advise guests to go ahead and chat in the FREE chat room. But your time is limited. My ultimate and short term goal is the videochat session.

[louchey]

[kitty]

I don't understand why you said: "It seems the host in question has another contract which would be infracted if she were to go too far on cam. "

Why don't you tell us the name of the site?

[Cams2Chat]

[Hony]

How about fisting, bondage, "schoolgirl" dress up? I personally don't have a problem with those but in some localities these are "too far" and at least some sites ban fisting for example. And a lot of people here get uncomfortable even if you use the word "teen".

Hony

[Cams2Chat]